About me:

It's amazing how the years can change you. I started out wanting badly to leave New York State. Some of my years in the Air Force were the best I'll ever experience... some were the worst ever. It's taken me so long to find where I belong. And, I guess I belong wherever I can make a difference. Animals are now my life... cats in particular. I've been doing rescue and adoption for over 10 years now. I finally have a wonderful job and I'm studying to become a licensed veterinary technician. Definitely not the life I thought I'd end up living... I left high school as a musician and while I still love to play the piano and sing - I'm in a completely different place in my life than I ever thought I'd be. And, I'm vegetarian! I never thought that would happen either! Nor did I ever think I'd be happy alone, but I am - after two horrible marriages and a disastrous four year relationship with someone I truly thought was my soul mate... I've still managed to find happiness with myself. I've also learned not to "define" myself - I'm not gay and I'm not heterosexual... if there's anything life has taught me... you can't define yourself that way. The person I might fall in love with - it won't matter whether they are male or female ... it will matter who they are inside... and, what they stand for... In the end... it's all good. Life is what I can make of it if I try, and someday - I hope life will be better than what it is right now. But, I'm sure I won't be here to see it. In the meantime, I'm doing what I can... and, if I find love - great... until then... I'll just live every day as if it's my last...

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Ahh... high school....

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