About me:

I moved to San Diego in '95 after spending 19 years in Minnesota, since then I have not looked back and continue to march to my own drummer. I have done and seen plenty since then, working hard at creating a career and establishing businesses that will bring me more independence. As I get older I am understanding how critical trust becomes, how important friends are and how special life is. You never know what the next day will bring... so enjoy your life and embrace your challenges.


I have realized that life is a long road with plenty of signs and you must pay close attention to them. My heart is an open book, one that is accessible to very selective few. While some choose to burn my pages, others appreciate what my book offers. I am selective in my friends, my lovers and my choices. I have learned that my actions can hurt other people even without me understanding what I do. What I do know is that I give my all to those nearest, I might not be perfect, but I try to do on to others as I want to be treated. With love, communication, respect and most importantly trust. I'm always thinking of them, always talking to them in my sleep and when I'm walking I'm talking to them even though they are not there. To bad they don't realize it.


I was born into a art / business oriented family which feeds my creativity and determination in life. I used to think that being a latch key kid was a bad thing and at times was really hard to deal with, but in retrospect it gave me tools I needed later in life to sidestep difficult obstacles, and also giving me the strength to push myself when faced with tough challenges.


I would not be here without my mother, my friends or my past loves.


Since 2002 I have been a full time entrepreneur and a technology consultant. Over the years I have seen many ups and downs, but when I look back at the worse times in my life I always pull through and come back even stronger. Music has been a powerful ledge to hold on to when things get rough, I can't tell you how many long sessions I have pulled listening the same songs over and over again.


In the future I see myself on an island, renting cars to tourists, growing my own food and raising a family. When that will be, who knows. But I'm sure to enjoy the ride!

Rob and Elliot Widget